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lou vitti    2008-05-06 19:08:01

New York Philharmonic Orchestra –How some members sexually abuse young college girls? The most traumatic experience in my life turned out to how some of the musicians of the NY Philharmonic Orchestra manipulated my wife. They Are: 1.Before we married, the flute player, Musician #1,used emotional/sexual abuse, fear and rape on my wife. I remember sitting in the audience during a master class and suddenly, I was just watching, the police came and escorted me out of the building. He saw me and was looking for sexual conquest, another notch on his belt for getting my wife. During private lessons, he would teach breathing lessons and sexual touch my wife to arouse her. He made her drive 2 hours to New Jersey to his house one night. I was playing a musical show and did not know. I found out many of these events way after they happened. He arrived late and yelled at her for waiting in the car in the street. Inside, he got what he wanted. Another time, he made her drive to Hartford, CT since he was a teacher at Yale University. He was always yelling and angry with her. He used the techniques of emotional abuse, sexual abuse, fear, anger and rape for a promise with a job with the orchestra. What did I get-gonorrhea. He did not recognize. He always told my wife that she was using him to make me jealous, a common technique using blame to abuse. He went in and came out of mental institutions his entire career. When he had sex with my wife, he would get mad and make her leave the house late at night. He was evil. The last time he came out of a mental institution, on the same day, he hung himself on the shower rod. For some reason, I felt a sense of closure and in a weird way was happy. I know many girls from the 70's while I was a music student. They see a psychologist, suffer from PTSD, are depressed and afraid to tell their husbands who do not know since they have children and a marriage. But since that time, he destroyed many girls’ lives and made them go into denial of being raped. It is natural for women to go into this state and try to forget since some are submissive. It is natural for women to go into this pre-PTSD state. 2. Musician #2- During lessons he would try to undress my wife by unbuttoning her shirt to cop a feel and get oral sex. He never succeeded but his wife was in the house. In addition, he came over our house and acted as a friend of mind while behind my back he was trying. My wife was in a state of fear and afraid to tell me. Well, he was an alcoholic and drank himself to death. He was into collecting guns and rifles and I wonder if this had an affect on creating fear. 3. Musician #3- He would invite my wife to NY Philharmonic rehearsals and give her the impression of a job. Then ask my wife to lunch and have a lesson in his Manhattan studio. In his home in Brewster, NY, he would try in his studio the common abuse methods by impressing his students with his playing but he was not a good teacher since he did not know how to teach the methods to achieve these goals in playing. Meanwhile, while he tried, I was waiting in the car outside and his wife was in the house a real low life bas.......d. Today there is one person left. (3 out of 4 have died). What a relief. Anger has left and I wait for God's justice. I contacted many offices and executives of the NY Philharmonic and no one has replied. I consider myself an advocate for this form of rape. Recently, a clarinetist was revealed for doing these pervert actions. The Philharmonic spoke to him; imagine. He should have been taken out with handcuffs during a concert for all to see and for him, be revealed for his actions for the last 30 years. Most people have this pristine look at orchestras and never hear about some of the things mentioned above that go on. If they only knew, I could imagine what they and the press would think. It really is worse than what Elliot Spitzer, ex-Governor of NY did and that was really bad.

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